The Difference Between You And the Women Who Get the Guy

Can’t figure out why you’re not getting the guy?



It’s an ongoing mystery many women have a challenge unravelling. Many things can impact your results, but I’ve narrowed it down to ONE. And, once you grasp this, it will have a positive impact in your current dating life. I promise, you’ll never look back.



So, the difference between YOU and women who get the guy is:



You have stopped yourself in a place they haven’t.



Now, before you have a big reaction and start telling me "But Kim, you don’t understand" just hear me out on this. It really is this simple (as all genius observations tend to be!)



Those women have learned how to push through their fears. Whatever stopped you internally or externally has simply not stopped them. When you really get this, it can make such a difference with how fast you move forward and approach your soul mate attraction goals,



So let’s look at how this happens...



Lets say you set your goals. For example: I’m going to make this the year I meet my man". That may mean attending a singles event or being open to meeting new men. Now, maybe in the past you’ve attended singles events and you didn’t have a good time or perhaps you’ve had a string of "bad dates" the last few months. So you decide you want to avoid all that happening again and STOP right there.



Often, you may not even be conscious that’s why you’re stopping. You’ll come up with a lot of creative excuses like: "men only want younger women" or "I don’t like the bar scene" or "all the good men are taken".



You need to be honest with yourself if you’re making these types of excuses. The instant you do AND the instant you face the reality that you’re scared of...



1. Being humiliated,

2. Rejected

3. Getting hurt again



...you’ll be free forever!



So this week, I want you to focus on where are you stopping yourself? It’s not procrastination. There’s a very good chance there’s something deeper you’re avoiding. It’s getting in the way and it’s holding you back.



All you need to do is remember that the only difference between you and the women who "got the guy" is that they don’t stop at that place. You need to find a way to keep going.



One great way to keep you moving forward is to stay connected to positive messages and great tips about improving yourself like my f*ree Preview Call series where I’ll be sharing my personal stories, advice and things I learned along the way that you can use to heal and move forward.



The other way is to keep being honest with yourself about why you’re stopping and remember that you can’t stop there! The truth is everything you want but don’t have lies outside of your comfort zone. If it was in your comfort zone, you’d already have it!



To get what you want, if you want a different set of results, you need to get comfortable with being uncomfortable. Please know, I’m speaking from experience. I had to do this time and time again in my love life and every area of my life.



Action Steps



1. Get very honest about where you’re stopping yourself

2. Do whatever you need to do to breakthrough and do THAT thing that you’ve been avoiding.